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How can I get my man to cum sooner during sex?


Anyone with some good tips or advice? Have been married for almost six months now. Husband and I have great sex. He gets excited and ready for me really quick and we enjoy each other immensely. Only thing is that he takes a while to actually ejaculate and I feel like the sex is more exciting for me than for him. I know that other people think he's lucky because he can go for long, but sometimes it would be nice if I wasn't completely exhausted at that moment! Is there some kind of position that can speed these things up?

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MARKOH22 MARKOH22 2 years 3 days
My gf doesn't makes me feel who i am during sex,she dosnt hold me ,i love to be grub i feel comfortable if she hold my wooper shaft it like moving it a round her pois that makes me to stay ,i have told her please and please ,she coulnt ,iwanted to try a nother girl
JW1123 JW1123 2 years 4 weeks
As a male who sometimes takes a long time, I find the easiest way to cum quicker is have sex in the morning. Its all about being relaxed as possible. Too much alcohol seems to inhibit matters; could be a prostate thing. Sometimes the body craves sleep more than rest late at night. Try switching to more morning sex.
Stêphãníê2546969 Stêphãníê2546969 2 years 22 weeks
Okay. You can talk to him very dirty like telling him by saying things like, "YES BABY!! I want you to cum in me an fill me up an make me feel sweet" or "Baby I want you to cum all over my body......." During sex, tell him what you want in a dirty way and show him how bad you want it........ It works for me every time............ I hope it works for you too.... Good Luck!!!! Have Fun!!!!
Serene18 Serene18 2 years 22 weeks
And as Strangehoney said try moaning in his ear before you cum, this will make him go wild and try to hold on... Damn this post is old
Serene18 Serene18 2 years 22 weeks
Grind against his pelvic area or have him lift one or both of your legs over his shoulders. It feels better for him because it gets tighter and it's up in the air. I always get a better response out of him when that happens or when I squeeze my muscles.
goliathnichols goliathnichols 2 years 36 weeks
I am a guy who has always taken a long time to finish. Do not ask what to do, just do it. Change things up and think of things that he is not expecting. My wife will ask me what to do and if I tell her, it sucks. But, if she just does it, I will cum. Do not be scared to talk.... I am still trying to get my wife more into the things we do. We do anal both ways, oral and any way possible. She still seems to be scared. I just want to say, you can read all the shit you want, but if you both can't agree, it is not going to work. GN
strangehunny strangehunny 3 years 7 weeks
Most men who are "going the distance" do so because he thinks you are fond of that and it strokes his ego. Try whispering in his ear "Oh my god if you cum right now I will go right over the edge!" or try something more forceful like "Cum dammit--right now" and grab his ass like you mean it. Men usually lose it completely when a woman is aggressive. BTW...jennynice....great pointers!
anon6789 anon6789 3 years 8 weeks
Hmmm with my ex what worked was doing it doggy style. He was a butt man so he said he enjoyed the view and really liked grabbing me by my waist or hips, which were the attributes he most liked about me. Play up your attributes, if he's a boob man then being on top and having him play with your boobs, or playing with them yourself and giving him a nice view may work... or maybe he's more aural and gets turned on by sound. I don't know, but pay attention to what he most likes about you or sex in general and play that up.
jennynice jennynice 3 years 27 weeks
well, you can try this, it works for me: 1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on. 2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king. 3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it. 4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him. 5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder. 6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking. 7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out. 8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks. 9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com 10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it. Good luck
JuiceeRedmami JuiceeRedmami 5 years 23 weeks
When my bf is having one of those nights where we've been at it for hours, and it seems like it just won't end. I tell him I want him to fuck my face.. I allow him to handcuff my hands behind my back, and treat my mouth as my pussy. He loves it and so do I. It works every time, and I get a good nights sleep.
JamieWinters JamieWinters 5 years 23 weeks
A variation on jazzybelle's technique: If you know a fantasy he's particularly fond of, start verbally acting it out. For example: I once dated a guy who was into mother-son fantasies. When I wanted him to come, I would start saying things like, "Oh, yes, baby boy, come inside your mommy now!" It never failed!!
Fallingfromtrees Fallingfromtrees 5 years 24 weeks
DH just props me up on the bathroom counter. We can face each other and it gives him a full view! We usually use this when it starts to take a little longer than we like (i have the same problem). Its really a fun spot too!
jazzybelle jazzybelle 5 years 25 weeks
Act like it will really turn you on if he comes, say things like "oh please, come right now!" hee hee works like a charm
Hiding55 Hiding55 5 years 26 weeks
Ha I just tell my bf that I want him to cum or that I'm tired and he'll finish his business faster. Usually when he's taking a long time it's because he thinks I haven't climaxed yet and as soon as I tell him I have it's a wrap. Some guys think the longer they can last the better. So not always the case.
ginababe ginababe 5 years 26 weeks
Well I orgasm fairly quickly so my current guy doesn't last too long because I move my hips up into him when he's on top and I thrust fast. Also he knows I'm extremely ticklsh and starts foreplay by tickling me so when he enters me he's moving his fingers on my ribs making me squirm and writhe so he gets off very quickly. I don't know if this helps. Good luck.
Janine22 Janine22 5 years 26 weeks
I have read that rubbing the guys perineum will make him come faster (spot between his balls and bum). Also, I don't know if this will gross you out, but I saw this scene in that showcase show 'Secret diary of a call girl' where she put a condom on her finger and stuck it up his bum, I guess rubbed his prostate to make him cum faster. Good luck.
1cigarrette 1cigarrette 5 years 26 weeks
haha I totally know what you mean... I'm normally quite pleased with the fact that my guy lasts a long time but every once in a while it's nice to have sex in less than 2 hours... Possibly TMI but: All I know is that when I'm on top he gets really excited and comes faster, basically anything that gets him really excited (mirrors, babyoil, touching him, any position that lets him look and touch my butt) makes him lose control and come quicker... Goodluck! :)