I want a 50's style bedroom!
I really, really, want to have separate beds. My husband will not understand this, and thinks that I don't love him because I want to sleep in my own bed. Why do I want my own bed?
Well, I want to be able to get a good night's sleep and feel great in the morning. This doesn't happen when we share a bed because he kicks, bounces, and elbows me all night long. Sure, he's asleep at the time so I can't get mad at him for that, but why won't he understand that we should have separate beds?? I mean honestly, it's not good! I have tried to sleep in the same bed for all of our years together and it's just not something that I can adjust to.
I think a lot of it is that he is worride what his family or other people may say if they saw that we had separate beds, but I know that many couples do this. In fact, it's even a trend in newer homes to have separate sleeping rooms now in the master bedroom. What can I say to convince him? I have tried just about everything I can think of, and sure our bed room would be wall to wall beds, but at least we could get some sleep!