Just so you know...
Currently, all of my kids are on visitation with their other parents so it's been a nice vacation and my house has miraculously stayed clean. My two stepsons will return home this evening and my littlest will be home next weekend. The older two see their mother for four non-consecutive weeks in the summer and my youngest spends six weeks with his dad and I get him every other weekend during.
It's usually hit or miss with how my stepsons interact with me when they come home from their grandmother/mother's house.
Wish me luck!!