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I came out to some of my friends but no family last year. I know that I am a lesbian but I can't accept myself. I see two girls together and I catch myself thinking its wrong.  How can I still have these feelings about who I truly am?  Do they ever go away? I never thought that I would still be having these feelings after I came out to my friends.  I see two girls holding hands in public and I feel its wrong. I know its not wrong but it is my first feeling.  Is that from years of my family telling me it was wrong? I'm not that young.  As a mater of fact I came out in my late 30's.  Its so hard to make this change and see the disappointment in others eyes.  Help!Spoiled

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Do you feel like it's wrong because you like it or because they are women? I used to feel a little of both, I used to ignore my feelings, I avoided any situation that involved someone I could be attracted to. I am a Christian and that is still an issue for me. But, it did not go away for me, it made me someone I did not want to be. Now I realise that our parents teach us the path of least resistance because they love us and want to protect us. Also consider that it is as hard for a parent as it is for us. Having a child that does not fit the social mould is still considered a parental failure unfortunately. They are as scared of us being different as we are.