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Master The Art Of Self Pleasure *Masturbation

In the late 1800s masturbation was considered a sin. In 1960s It was considered a mental condition or immature or undesirable behavior, leading to lack of adult responses. But today the sexual climate has changed completely.

Masturbation is an activity to explore more happiness and add sensuality to your whole sexual dimension. Masturbation provides the fastest and easiest sexual relief and satisfaction, in short this is the safest form of sex.

Masturbation is practiced to reach orgasm by self stimulating sexual organs. But some people find this not working with them. They complain that even though they were enjoying masturbation earlier it is not the same now. Few people fail to reach an orgasm through masturbation for some unknown reasons.

There can be a number of reasons why masturbation doesn't bring an orgasm for many people. Depression, emotional instability, or the baseless worries and beliefs regarding masturbation may be obstacles to enjoy masturbation. Most of the people believe that masturbation may cause severe health problems. Masturbation is considered as a moral sin by many religions. When over powered with these feelings and worries masturbation may not bring an orgasm to people.

While it is common to think of the genitals as the most important sex organ, it is actually the brain that counts the most. For some persons it's even possible for the body to have an orgasm, but because the brain does not perceive it, they don't know it. When one is struck with lot of anxieties, fears and tensions even if the body feels an orgasm the brain doesn't perceive and enjoy it.

To enjoy masturbation to the fullest certain preparations are to be taken, like preparing yourself with a bath, being in a calm and relaxed state, selecting a comfortable posture etc.... may help you to have a joyful masturbation to reach an orgasm. Each time you start caressing your body, try to keep going for longer and to increase your delight in what you're finding out about yourself.

There are lot of advisable ways to do effective masturbation. Every one masturbates when he/she is aroused with sexual feelings. But when you begin to feel depressed, and the emotions overwhelm your arousal so you can't have an orgasm. The best and most appreciable way to reach an orgasm is having a fantasy when you masturbate. Most people fantasize during masturbation. studies have indicated that these scenarios and images many times involve situations or people that the subject would actually encountered in real life. Let your fantasy be the one gives you the deep most sexual desire and that makes you crazy. Never have a fantasy that may bring back you to a depressed stage thus loosing your interest in the act.

Don't forget that the most powerful part of a person's arousal equipment is his/her mind. So it can be helpful to introduce some mental stimulation into the exercise. Try thinking of things that turn you on. Or, while you're stimulating yourself, read from one of those erotic novels. You might even like to try caressing yourself while viewing a sexy video. There are many different ways for a girl to have an orgasm. Most girls reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation. But some girls can have orgasms from vaginal penetration alone or even through nipple stimulation or fantasizing.

Phone sex is another way to do effective and successful masturbation. You can experiment various methods over a phone. Even though most people use their hands to masturbate, instruments like vibrators and dildoes may also be used. These imitate the movements of the hand and provide sexual pleasure. Vast numbers of women nowadays enjoy using a vibrator some or all of the time. There are some truly amazing products around these days for both men and women, and the fair sex is becoming much less timid about trying them. There is no right or wrong way of pursuing solo pleasure - and everyone should experiment to find what she/he likes best. When you feel that masturbation no more help you to reach an orgasm, a sexual equipment may be helpful for you.

The mere word masturbation will make many people uncomfortable as they deeply believe that this is an act of moral and ethical offense. The guilt feeling may work as a hindrance to orgasm. Changing the attitude towards this sexual act itself will make people enjoying masturbation in the fullest sense. One should understand that it is not physically harmful, will not cause diseases or infertility, and is a normal expression of sexuality. Masturbation is a normal part of human sexual development.

Consider masturbation from a medical perspective. We can say without fear of contradiction that there is no scientific evidence to indicate that this act is harmful to the body.

Despite terrifying warnings given to young people historically, it does not cause blindness, weakness, mental retardation or any other physical problem. Knowing this itself will wipe away all the unnecessary fears and tensions from your mind and you will find masturbation more and more joyful.

Make sure that you are not doing it in a way that enhances feelings of shame or guilt about the activity! Self-pleasuring is a fun thing, and it's certainly a natural part of human sexuality!

The act can bring about relaxation, pleasure, tension release, and physical satisfaction. Some sources indicate that masturbation in older children and teenagers can produce better control over sexual urges. Researchers generally agree that since masturbation does not usually bring the same psychological satisfaction as sexual interaction with another person, the activity declines or ceases altogether once an individual becomes involved in a sexual relationship with a partner.


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PinkNC PinkNC 6 years 21 weeks
Those are the types of articles that I have read too *Nyrina* Masturbation is a good thing but too much is soooo bad for you.
Nyrina-Windu Nyrina-Windu 6 years 21 weeks
I've read plenty of times that masturbating too much can cause a lot of imbalances in the body. Here is something... "Frequent masturbation and ejaculation stimulate acetylcholine/parasympathetic nervous functions. Excessive stimulation can result in over production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters such as acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin. Abundant and unusually large amount of these hormones and neurotransmitters can cause the brain and adrenal glands to perform excessive dopamine-norepinephrine-epinephrine conversion and turn the brain and body functions to be extremely sympathetic. In other words, there is a big change of body chemistry when one excessively masturbates. This is BAD NEWS for your sex partner. Masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Like other behaviors, when over practiced or addicted it can lead to both psychological and physiological imbalances. The side effects of such changes to the body include: * Fatigue. Feeling tired all the time * Lower back pain * Thinning hair / Hair Loss * Soft / Weak Erection * Premature Ejaculation * Eye floaters or fuzzy vision * Groin / Testicular Pain * Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone"
PinkNC PinkNC 6 years 22 weeks
Venus* I think she means that if we masturbate too much then it will be harder to us to climax with our partners.
PinkNC PinkNC 6 years 22 weeks
I can agree with you *JSP* men do usually have the problems if they do too much of it and if they also watch TOO much porn.
JessieSP JessieSP 6 years 25 weeks
And I think men are usually the ones that have a problem with addiction to masturbation. Women enjoy it of course but they don't go overboard with it.
JessieSP JessieSP 6 years 25 weeks
Cool post.
Venus1 Venus1 6 years 26 weeks
talk2reebi talk2reebi 6 years 26 weeks
masterbation is the safest way to enjoy sex...but if it in uncontrol it become a problem in sex life.
Venus1 Venus1 6 years 27 weeks
Masturbation must still be one of the last taboos; society hates things it cannot control. I lead a full an active (partner) sex life but still masturbate regularly. For me the needs for both are so different. Please raise your champagne glass to Betty Dodson; an amazing champion of women and self loving!
PinkNC PinkNC 6 years 28 weeks
Thank you for your comment! I hope you enjoy the rest of the blogs too :)
Nyrina-Windu Nyrina-Windu 6 years 28 weeks
Informative. Thanks!