My childrens Father .....some one please some advice
So every morning I wake up with the kids and make them breakfast and change My sons diaper and start cleaning the house. Thats the story for almost every mom right? Well here is the twist My boyfriend and thier father never helps in fact He always makes it harder on me. Like when they wake up and I am trying to get out of bed HE will say just five more minutes come on I just want to cuddle. Stuff like that , when I ask him to help me clean HE will not he will stay on his 360 and the help will never happen. I have physical therepy 2 times a week and so I leave and My boyfriend uses that against me He says you always get a break you get to go out to your therepy . I also work even more hours a week then he does . I do all the errands , I make all the meals, I clean the whole house , and I am the one who watches the kids most of the time. When I do ask for help he gets mad , and yet he is always needing something I am starting to build a wall between us . I dont like to cuddle anymore because behind my smile I am so angry with him . Except I cant talk to him because HE just starts defending himself and gets mad . He wont even listen to me.
Today for example - He bought a new game for his xbox and my five year old wanted to play it .... He got all up in arms because I thought he should let her play for a few min before he got on ... SHe is a child that is who games are made for.... and he is fighting with a child over a game .... seriously? And its not like he plays for a hour or two ... HE will play from now at 11:00 till about 4:30 before he goes to work . HE wont pay the kids any attention , I will do all the work and complain and he will ignore me .
His priorities are messed up and He knows that but wont admit to it thats why he gets so mad when I try to talk to him about it .
Will he ever grow up or is this a lost cause because I love him yes .... very very much. But, I love my children more. And the more he acts like this and acts like the kids are a chore, the more I feel alone. I am very alone and He is still acting like a child .