Iposted a question few days ago about having sex with a man who has a chronical heart disease and no body seemed to help me, i don't know what to do,, the day before yesterday he was sick and i went to visit him, everything was normal till one thing led to another and we ended up in each others' arms, then i went home..when i called him yesterday afterhe back from work he told me his left side of the chest hurts, and i felt so guilty and told him i should've stopped him when he initiated sex he was already sick and i didn't help him or avoid what makes him sicker..he said it takes two and he really wanted this to happen and doesn't regeret it and he'll be ok in a matter of two days..
am with my boy friend for a year and 2 months now, everything is great, we have plans for future, mutual understanding, mutual support... I posted a question on group therapy about my bf having a heart disease before, and i still can't know how to deal with this situationa month ago, he told me he has a chronical heart disease caused by some feverwhen he was achild, and said that is the reason why he had to rest and can't -sometimes- maintain his erection, and that's the reason why i can hear his heart beating strongly and he suffers to take a breath i was shocked, i was a virgin and he was my 1st sex partner, that's why i couldn't see those signs, i thought when he couldn't keep in the mode that i turn him off, that why i was embarrassed to ask him, what really made me astonished that we can do it 3-4times a day, once or twice a week, yes he might take a rest or a nap, or suffer and sweat alot, but finally it is amazing, and oddly enough that contributed in deepening the intemacy between us; that he- when inside me (ehmm) and feel tired he doesn't pull out and sleep on the side of the bed, instead he sleep on me, or i am the one who sleeps on him and wakes up to find out he's having sex with me!
am with my boy friend for a year and 2 months now, everything is great, we have plans for future, mutual understanding, mutual support...
I posted a question on group therapy about my bf having a heart disease before, and i still can't know how to deal with this situationa month ago, he told me he has a chronical heart disease caused by some feverwhen he was achild, and said that is the reason why he had to rest and can't -sometimes- maintain his erection, and that's the reason why i can hear his heart beating strongly and he suffers to take a breath
i was shocked, i was a virgin and he was my 1st sex partner, that's why i couldn't see those signs, i thought when he couldn't keep in the mode that i turn him off, that why i was embarrassed to ask him, what really made me astonished that we can do it 3-4times a day, once or twice a week, yes he might take a rest or a nap, or suffer and sweat alot, but finally it is amazing, and oddly enough that contributed in deepening the intemacy between us; that he- when inside me (ehmm) and feel tired he doesn't pull out and sleep on the side of the bed, instead he sleep on me, or i am the one who sleeps on him and wakes up to find out he's having sex with me!
Ok, so I have been “casually dating” this one guy for about a month now and he treats me absolutely perfectly and wonderfully, too good to be true?