Ok, so in retrospect the friend who said they were going at it 12-18 times a day was certainly not on my schedule... I work nights closing up the bar and don't tend to get the same days off as my husband... my schedule is starting to be set and his is starting to be crazy.
Ok, so I've been married 2 years and we've done a lot in that 2 years, bought a beautiful old farmhouse (5b/2b) a new car, 2 motorcycles... things we may not have gotten on our own... but what's difficult is the money thing...it's the one place we always disagreed... my question to all you other young and marrieds is how much do you take part in the family finances...
I'd say that it's slim in my case if something were to happen to him (god forbid) I'd have no idea what was going on I just know our account balance cuz I deposited tips...