Shaving Tip:
If you are going to shave, use hair conditioner as opposed to any gels or creams. Then the razor just glides. I've been doing this for over 15 years
Men like variety, and strangely enough they notice pube fashions. So whatever's currently popular in porn is a good basic look. And then change it up by growing it out for a bit or shaving differently.
And shaving is way better in my opinion. Because you don't get any awkward stubbly days or red days like you do with waxing.
Well, you are normal if you have a vagina and your gyno says you're healthy! I don't think there's such thing as an abnormal vagina...
As for brazilian or bikini wax... I keep just a little landing strip and keep the rest clean-shaven. Most guys seem to like it... I would suggest asking him though, not all men prefer the same thing.
The only hair on my body is on my head! For me it feels cleaner and better but I do this for me. My body is not exclusivly an entertainment centre for men, it is what I prefer to do.
As for normal, aside from possible infection issues mentioned by Inlove23 above, each vulva is a unique piece of its won beauty. Sadly the porn industry, airbrushing and ironically cencorship (leading to detail being removed) have caused a lot of people to have concerns where they really should have none.
My boyfriend prefers "Brazilian", and that's how I prefer to have it. But, I shave. No man is worth pain. lmao. Normal has some discharge (not green), minimal odor, "bump-free" and itch free for the most part. Green discharge is an infection, bumps can mean an STD (sometimes a pimple though), and if there is burning when urinating than it's a sign of a urinary tract infection. Everyone's a little different in shape or sizes but the signs I mentioned above are pretty much the same for everyone.
bikini or brazilian wax? which do guys prefer? also how do you now if you are normal down there?
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