is the friendship over?
Over the summer I started to hang out with a girl that I have known since middle school but never really got to know her. Anyway we became really close and would tell each other everything. During the last month or so its all changed. I would always tell her if she wants to hang out like go to a bar or something and she would give me the excuse that she had homework. I can understand that cuz college does take up a lot of time. So when we had our winter break I expected that we would go out more. Nope. I told her 4 or more times in a row if she wanted to go out and she would give excuses or that she was busy with her bf, babysitting or whatever. That she's so busy. But whenever she would call me to go to the mall after work or just something quick like that I said Yes, even when I was sick. She calls herself my best friend but best friends in my opinion don't treat each other like that. There's the saying if something's important to you you'll find the time if not you'll find an excuse. So I feel like I'm not an important part in her life anymore. The last time I contacted her I told her that I felt like she didn't want to talk to me anymore and she said she did but was very busy, then she rubbed in my face that when she tells me to hang out (rarely) that I'm busy at the gym. Since then we haven't contacted each other. If I don't start the convo by text or call she won't, I'm waiting to see if she contacts me but nothing yet. It does hurt me because I thought we became very close. I dont know what happened in the last month. Any idea of what is going on? Or what do I do.