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trust issues

hey!my boyfriend of two years once used to flirt with a girl behind my back. it happened more than a year ago.i wasn't okay with that when i got to know. we both had acess to each other's accounts and that is how i found out.i felt humiliated and disrespected.i forgave him but with a condition that he will cut contact from her. he did for a while. she made efforts to talk to him, but he didn't retaliate. once he did, we had a fight again and then he promised that he would block her out. he has now blocked her.after a year he did.sometimes when he wants to hurt me while we are fighting, he says her name and that she's the best one and la la.i have been backstabbed by friends and cheated on before and i try not to feel bad for myself but that has affected my self esteem i thinkmy problem is i don't believe him when he says he doesn't talk to her, i always feel he's lying. sometimes i stalk him..i feel so bad and disgusted.he used to tell me when she made a move to talk to him, hasn't denied when he used to reply earlier.but now he says he doesnt and has even blocked her.i feel humiliated most of all.i don't trust i wrong? what should i do?please help